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80 The power is in you
Story: Owl II
Let’s continue the story
of Owl (article 79), the candidate who would not
scream “incompetent.” He found a need and filled it
(article 56). How did he do it? He gathered
private financing for services the government did not provide.
More significantly, however, he contributed a mind fixed on
realizing what could be. Outlook makes the difference. PMA
(positive mental attitude) accepts challenges as opportunities
for growth.
In article 32 I refused
to watch news reports of burning buildings because the watching
serves no useful purpose. Next, article 33 stated,
“we do not climb up by looking down. Our minds and muscles
carry us where we fix our gaze. If this is self-evident, why are
people bound for heaven (up) preoccupied with sin (down)?
Sin-bashing is mental pollution.” Let us focus on where we are
actually going.
Challenge
Do you live in a beautiful country? Your
answer tells me all about you through the lens of what you
observe. The eye of the beholder is a subjective filter. How you
share your viewpoint shows me your mental state.
Article 12 teaches that you are the light by which you
perceive your surroundings, and
article 19 points us directly at beauty (see the rose, not
the thorn).
Article 78 laughs at asking for support by announcing “I am
going to fight you.” Although businesses and churches create pain
points to make their products necessary, I am not going to allow
you to trash our country as a sales pitch for your political
platform.
Study Owl again. His opening line is “I
can make you look good.” Now say that to your
country!
Involve me
If you answer me with a complaint about
how bad the government, country, or world is, I will work for
you to be healed; I will not come to where your mind
resides. This declaration reflects
Jack Canfield’s position that requires listeners to take 100%
responsibility for their outcomes. I spend time with those whose
outcomes will be positive.
My dream world almost coincides with my
real-world setting because I can see the bridge into the world of
sharing (end of
article 73). We make our own worlds, individually and
collectively. Individually, we fashion how we perceive our places
in the world and what we do there. Collectively, we inhabit one
shared environment that lives or dies with all of us aboard. The
collective nature of survival motivates us to survive together.
We depend on other humans. Our PMA is to interdepend
kindly.
Article 68 quotes the sage who said that you
are what you think about when you do not have to think. We should
and do think. What you think is the world you are
creating. Playing success coach, I won’t allow you to think
pessimism. That’s not the right world to create.
What to think
Now that we are united being optimistic,
consider the string of articles celebrating diversity and
disagreement. Without that tolerance, we land in the “fight”
language prison. On the other hand, with love and forbearance, we
are crafting the new world. We realize improved
worlds using our perception. This is intentional double meaning
consistent with the dictionary: To “realize” a renewed world is
first “to become aware” of it; and following that, to “achieve”
it.
This aligns with my reference in article 33 to Dr.
Benjamin Hardy’s proposal that we measure ourselves by our
futures, not our pasts. PMA is identifying as the better
versions of ourselves that we are becoming. We learn from the
past and evaluate present needs, but the aim of political thought
is improving the future. I ask for those thoughts to be
favorable.
When our discussions look to the future,
we can tone down our rhetoric. What you fear in my proposals
hasn’t happened yet, so we still have time to work out details.
It is frustrating to spend time getting everyone aboard the
progress train but doing so is more effective than letting the
train pull into the destination empty. We are inviting
people aboard when we show them the kindness of our future
world.
The principle: look!
During negative speech about a person,
party, or government I am not listening. I perk up when you talk
to me about what you are doing to improve any of those. Do you
see the difference? Either way it appears that the object is not
perfect. The first view is fault, the second is action—the kind
that contributes. It is my joy to listen to your
contribution. That is how you attain happiness (and a
renewed world).
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